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SC Detective “Too Sexy For His Shirt”

In the history of YouTube, we’ve never seen 130 seconds quite like this … According to the user who uploaded this controversial clip, the gentleman massaging himself in the video below is E. Walter Bales, a detective with the Forest Acres, South Carolina police department. “Warning – it cannot be…

In the history of YouTube, we’ve never seen 130 seconds quite like this …

According to the user who uploaded this controversial clip, the gentleman massaging himself in the video below is E. Walter Bales, a detective with the Forest Acres, South Carolina police department.

“Warning – it cannot be unseen,” the source who forwarded this to us said.

We concur …

(Click to play)

Sing it with us, everybody … “I’m a model/ you know what I mean/ and I do my little turn on the cat walk/ Yeah on the catwalk/ On the catwalk yeah/ I shake my little touche on the catwalk.”

Except no … not even Right Said Fred can right this wrong.

Anyway, calls to various Forest Acres government officials were not immediately returned. And to be honest, we can’t blame them for wanting to take a pass on this particular inquiry.

UPDATE: Oh Good God there’s another video of Bales in which he’s speaking to someone directly into the camera as he strips …

“Hi honey, this is me. Today is friday the 13th and I wanted to give you a little something to think about maybe over the weekend since we don’t get to talk to each other so much. I wanted you to know I’ve enjoyed chatting with you today, it’s been ever so fun. And I’m learning all kinds of stuff about you and I like it a lot. I just wanted you to know, that, uh, this isn’t easy, and I do expect a return sometime. I’m not going to get too carriedaway today, but I wanted you to maybe have an idea… Of how daring I can be (laughs). So with that said, I wanted to let you know that I love you and that this is awfully fun, and I want you to share in the fun too. So whenever you get ready, I’ll be more than happy (groans), to wait for you, to do some fun things with me. And if you’re willing to do that, I’ll be really really happy. So anyway I thought I’d give you a little treat to make the weekend go by a little bit better and I’ll talk to you really really soon. I love you dear, bye.”

UPDATE II:  Bales has a user page on “The Underground Sex Club” website under his own name which lists him as a 51-year-old bisexual from Forest Acres, S.C. The page includes several X-rated images.

UPDATE III: Several online forums feature entries from users claiming to be Bales’ “victims.” Hmmmm … we’re digging to see what that’s all about. 

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107 comments

Darth February 25, 2013 at 12:58 pm

He does favor Jake Knotts a little bit…

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Darth February 25, 2013 at 11:58 am

He does favor Jake Knotts a little bit…

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sweepin February 25, 2013 at 1:33 pm

I think you meant “ex-detective.”

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bozmartin February 25, 2013 at 1:54 pm

Yeah, this has “Suspended pending investigation” written all over it. And I did not even watch that obviously revolting display.

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sweepin February 25, 2013 at 12:33 pm

I think you meant “ex-detective.”

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jimlewisowb February 25, 2013 at 1:36 pm

Goddamn

Trying to recuperate from respiratory problems and of all things I clicked on “Bales has a user page “ and coughed to point I almost passed out.

If Bales is a fucking Police Detective, hate to see a rundown on the extracurricular activities of the Police Chief and the Mayor.

About the only thing that could top this piece of shit is for the Police Chief and the Mayor to post a picture of them simultaneously fucking the same ewe or maybe that is why they keep Bales on the payroll.

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jimlewisowb February 25, 2013 at 12:36 pm

Goddamn

Trying to recuperate from respiratory problems and of all things I clicked on “Bales has a user page “ and coughed to point I almost passed out.

If Bales is a fucking Police Detective, hate to see a rundown on the extracurricular activities of the Police Chief and the Mayor.

About the only thing that could top this piece of shit is for the Police Chief and the Mayor to post a picture of them simultaneously fucking the same ewe or maybe that is why they keep Bales on the payroll.

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? February 25, 2013 at 1:41 pm

LMAO!

Rarely am I left speechless; this time I was for about 1 minute after trying to scrub the images surrounding the first video out of my head. I should have taken the warning more seriously.

I’d like to hear 9″‘s opinion on this whole matter.

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? February 25, 2013 at 12:41 pm

LMAO!

Rarely am I left speechless; this time I was for about 1 minute after trying to scrub the images surrounding the first video out of my head. I should have taken the warning more seriously.

I’d like to hear 9″‘s opinion on this whole matter.

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BigT February 25, 2013 at 1:47 pm

I thought Libertarians are the BEST friends of people like this???

FITS, who is a Perv himself, sure tries to “out” a lot of them…

9″, Boz and FITS are just as creepy as this dude, w/ their contant proclaimations of how Willing they are…and ready for any woman or beast who is also ‘hot’ like them…

What gives, FITS…you gone get kicked out the Swingers Club???

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bozmartin February 25, 2013 at 1:55 pm

For all we know, this creeper could be YOU, BigT.

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BigT February 25, 2013 at 12:47 pm

I thought Libertarians are the BEST friends of people like this???

FITS, who is a Perv himself, sure tries to “out” a lot of them…

9″, Boz and FITS are just as creepy as this dude, w/ their contant proclaimations of how Willing they are…and ready for any woman or beast who is also ‘hot’ like them…

What gives, FITS…you gone get kicked out the Swingers Club???

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Tyrone Butternuts February 25, 2013 at 1:49 pm

But does he like chocolate, like Andre?

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Tyrone Butternuts February 25, 2013 at 12:49 pm

But does he like chocolate, like Andre?

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Sailor February 25, 2013 at 1:50 pm

That is one sick sonnovabitch!

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Sailor February 25, 2013 at 12:50 pm

That is one sick sonnovabitch!

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bozmartin February 25, 2013 at 1:52 pm

I choose not to watch that shit. I get a little queasy just reading about it.

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BigT February 25, 2013 at 2:06 pm

Looks like FITS, Boz, 9″ and Sanford have some competition in the perv. Dept.

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BigT February 25, 2013 at 1:06 pm

Looks like FITS, Boz, 9″ and Sanford have some competition in the perv. Dept.

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BrigidBernadette February 25, 2013 at 2:09 pm

Good grief, NSFW. Are people really this stupid? Check the local match.com pages, you’ll be surprised at the trolls around here that have no shame, publicly showing themselves as open for business, much less something disgusting like this. Is he unaware that this is linked here? Why is it still up? Well, he sure shows he can be compromised if you need out of a ticket. Flash him some tit and I’ll wager you’ll walk.

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BrigidBernadette February 25, 2013 at 1:09 pm

Good grief, NSFW. Are people really this stupid? Check the local match.com pages, you’ll be surprised at the trolls around here that have no shame, publicly showing themselves as open for business, much less something disgusting like this. Is he unaware that this is linked here? Why is it still up? Well, he sure shows he can be compromised if you need out of a ticket. Flash him some tit and I’ll wager you’ll walk.

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Farmer's Daughter February 25, 2013 at 2:11 pm

Oh, goddamn. Why the fuck did I click on that shit?

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Farmer's Daughter February 25, 2013 at 1:11 pm

Oh, goddamn. Why the fuck did I click on that shit?

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cuvinny February 25, 2013 at 2:19 pm

Has he done anything illegal? Who gives a shit what he does off the clock. Creepy article.

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Isotope Soap February 25, 2013 at 3:06 pm

Yeah, was he cheating on his wife or girlfriend? Has he been a hypocrite or something? Looks like someone went out of their way to upload this on YouTube.

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cuvinny February 25, 2013 at 1:19 pm

Has he done anything illegal? Who gives a shit what he does off the clock. Creepy article.

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John Boy February 25, 2013 at 2:06 pm

Yeah, was he cheating on his wife or girlfriend? Has he been a hypocrite or something? Looks like someone went out of their way to upload this on YouTube.

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Rosa Klebb February 25, 2013 at 3:07 pm

He is my kind of man. Please call me.

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Rosa Klebb February 25, 2013 at 2:07 pm

He is my kind of man. Please call me.

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Smirks February 25, 2013 at 3:08 pm

Fuck, man, I’m scarred for life now. Where’s the eye bleach when you need it…

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CorruptionInColumbia February 25, 2013 at 3:27 pm

I gouged my own eyes out after viewing it. A blind friend is reading this to me with their auto-reader feature on the computer.

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Smirks February 25, 2013 at 2:08 pm

Fuck, man, I’m scarred for life now. Where’s the eye bleach when you need it…

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CorruptionInColumbia February 25, 2013 at 2:27 pm

I gouged my own eyes out after viewing it. A blind friend is reading this to me with their auto-reader feature on the computer.

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ace February 25, 2013 at 4:49 pm

oh my side hurts from laughing – swear to God i hope i never see him cause i’ll bust out laughing right in his face – some people are way too gone for words.

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ace February 25, 2013 at 3:49 pm

oh my side hurts from laughing – swear to God i hope i never see him cause i’ll bust out laughing right in his face – some people are way too gone for words.

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Mr. Romantic February 25, 2013 at 5:32 pm Reply
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Soft Sigh from Hell February 25, 2013 at 6:24 pm

If stuffy Forest Acres fires him there is always Lexington County. Remember the description of the Lexington cop and pol party in upper Orangeburg County? The one decsribing Jakie’s behavior.

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Soft Sigh from Hell February 25, 2013 at 5:24 pm

If stuffy Forest Acres fires him there is always Lexington County. Remember the description of the Lexington cop and pol party in upper Orangeburg County? The one decsribing Jakie’s behavior.

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Rosa Klebb February 25, 2013 at 7:54 pm

You ridiculous people do not recognize a real man when you see one. If he calls me I will absolutely show him some tricks he has never heard spoken of. I am waiting, oh yes!

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Rosa Klebb February 25, 2013 at 6:54 pm

You ridiculous people do not recognize a real man when you see one. If he calls me I will absolutely show him some tricks he has never heard spoken of. I am waiting, oh yes!

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audreyc February 26, 2013 at 11:40 am

Something illegal? If you go to Youtube, search Walt Bales and watch a few of the videos you will see that many were filmed in his police car (where he talks about going home to take a long nap during his shift) and at least 4 of them actually filmed at the the station. I’m pretty sure that wasn’t approved by the captain. My burning question is this….. I’ve been following this for a month since it broke on Topix, what impact does his sexual misconduct at work have on the cases he worked on during the two years he was having this cyber-affair with this woman. He couldn’t carry on with her from his home, he’s married, that leaves work

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Sunglasses February 26, 2013 at 4:04 pm

Sent you a message on Youtube.

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audreyc February 26, 2013 at 11:40 am

Something illegal? If you go to Youtube, search Walt Bales and watch a few of the videos you will see that many were filmed in his police car (where he talks about going home to take a long nap during his shift) and at least 4 of them actually filmed at the the station. I’m pretty sure that wasn’t approved by the captain. My burning question is this….. I’ve been following this for a month since it broke on Topix, what impact does his sexual misconduct at work have on the cases he worked on during the two years he was having this cyber-affair with this woman. He couldn’t carry on with her from his home, he’s married, that leaves work

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Sharon Dawson February 26, 2013 at 4:04 pm

Sent you a message on Youtube.

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mr sinister February 26, 2013 at 11:55 am

they should use this video at Gitmo. One showing would be all it takes and the terrorists would give up everything they know…hell they might convert to avoild future exposure!

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mr sinister February 26, 2013 at 11:55 am

they should use this video at Gitmo. One showing would be all it takes and the terrorists would give up everything they know…hell they might convert to avoild future exposure!

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Audreyclark February 27, 2013 at 5:01 am

Well from what I am hearing and reading there are loads of women he harassed on the internet and not just the one. From all accounts there was one in South Africa he was doing whatever with over the internet for 5 years. What the hell is going on with this man. But maybe it’s not all it seems?

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Audreyclark February 27, 2013 at 5:01 am

Well from what I am hearing and reading there are loads of women he harassed on the internet and not just the one. From all accounts there was one in South Africa he was doing whatever with over the internet for 5 years. What the hell is going on with this man. But maybe it’s not all it seems?

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AudreyC March 1, 2013 at 6:15 am

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8PnDsPoSwkI

Follow the story and watch this, great stuff!

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AudreyC March 1, 2013 at 6:15 am

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8PnDsPoSwkI

Follow the story and watch this, great stuff!

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Darkestrain March 2, 2013 at 1:00 pm

This poor insecure woman cannot get over him.She blames everyone but herself & talks about trust.Trust?? She trusted him so much that she sent naked video/pictures to him.Oh get over it and get on with life!!

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youknow who March 2, 2013 at 8:25 pm

Hey, Sharon Dawson Botha, how it’s going for you there in Port Elizabeth South Africa. Five years you were struck on the detective. Long time, couldn’t you get over it. I found your job application here on the internet, when you were going to go and be an au pair in the USA so you could be with the detective. Says you are/were single but you are not are you. Oh and you lost him his job and he never did anything wrong to you did he? You shouldn’t be so trusting now should you. Get on with your life you hypocrite. Still looking for anything you can on him. He didn’t want you move on.

http://www.aupair.com/en/hire-nanny/south-african-nanny-from-south-africa-seeking-nanny-job-usa-270860.php

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Darkestrain March 3, 2013 at 2:08 am

So what’s your point? haha I forgot to tell you the real story.I’ve had a sex change and that’s why I could not tell you the truth.Hahah so you are competing against a man.rotfl..who cares..millions of fish in the sea and you are crying over a slob that robbed you..rotfl..

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Darkestrain March 3, 2013 at 2:27 am

And it was you Liz Taylor who was so bent on marrying him rotfl..that you put his nude pictures up on the porn site mentioned here, when he did not reciprocate and stopped contact with you buwahahaha..what an idiot.I wonder who lost him his job.

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Givehimhisjobback March 5, 2013 at 11:00 am

Oh no..you took down my job application page that you exposed here.I wonder why..Oh and the Topix forums gone too.I wonder why? I hope The Chief gives him his job back! Poor hen pecked man!

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DaveR March 6, 2013 at 8:16 am

How do you know he has lost his job, poor sod, what did he do wrong?

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DaveR March 6, 2013 at 8:45 am

He does not deserve a position at all by the sounds of things. Take my advice dear and move on. You took the job application down yourself. The link is still on here from what I can see. Please do yourself a favor and get over this. It seems as if it is eating away at you. Take the words of your other post and digest them. Go out and have a life. Be happy for yourself and no one else. The grass is never greener on the other side, after all ask the man who started all this, he’ll agree. Don’t waste your time feeling sorry for this man, he is bad news and not the best of catches either, in fact he is no catch at all. I am sure your husband is better than this man. A marriage has to be worked at, it’s not a game. You need to cut all ties and associates with anything to do with this period in your life. You cannot expect others involved to keep those ties bound with you, it is not natural. Move on now dear…move on.

Oh just in case dear you are wondering who I am, I am an agony aunt/uncle for a local newspaper in South Carolina and have been following these posts closely since this story broke on here. I have been monitoring the Youtube videos also very carefully. You need to step back now from all this, I can tell it is destroying you. Let anyone to do with this go and they will let go also. It all seems to be getting out of control now from what I can see and have been observing. No one knows who you are, disappear before they do. Good luck with your marriage and the rest of your life.

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BigEarsWasArat March 6, 2013 at 12:02 pm

Oh Liz again..Hahahaha Your Topix links are down but I love saving stuff..I hoard data..lol Hey Chief Sealy..give this man his job back.He was kind to us so called “victims”. Harrassed? Buwahaha what a joke..

BigEarsWasArat March 6, 2013 at 12:26 pm

Move on from what? lol. See the worried look in my eye.

Darkestrain March 2, 2013 at 1:00 pm

This poor insecure woman cannot get over him.She blames everyone but herself & talks about trust.Trust?? She trusted him so much that she sent naked video/pictures to him.Oh get over it and get on with life!!

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youknow who March 2, 2013 at 8:25 pm

Hey, Sharon Dawson Botha, how it’s going for you there in Port Elizabeth South Africa. Five years you were struck on the detective. Long time, couldn’t you get over it. I found your job application here on the internet, when you were going to go and be an au pair in the USA so you could be with the detective. Says you are/were single but you are not are you. Oh and you lost him his job and he never did anything wrong to you did he? You shouldn’t be so trusting now should you. Get on with your life you hypocrite. Still looking for anything you can on him. He didn’t want you move on.

http://www.aupair.com/en/hire-nanny/south-african-nanny-from-south-africa-seeking-nanny-job-usa-270860.php

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Darkestrain March 3, 2013 at 2:08 am

So what’s your point? haha I forgot to tell you the real story.I’ve had a sex change and that’s why I could not tell you the truth.Hahah so you are competing against a man.rotfl..who cares..millions of fish in the sea and you are crying over a slob that robbed you..rotfl..

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Darkestrain March 3, 2013 at 2:27 am

And it was you Liz Taylor who was so bent on marrying him rotfl..that you put his nude pictures up on the porn site mentioned here, when he did not reciprocate and stopped contact with you buwahahaha..what an idiot.I wonder who lost him his job.

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Givehimhisjobback March 5, 2013 at 11:00 am

Oh no..you took down my job application page that you exposed here.I wonder why..Oh and the Topix forums gone too.I wonder why? I hope The Chief gives him his job back! Poor hen pecked man!

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DaveR March 6, 2013 at 8:16 am

How do you know he has lost his job, poor sod, what did he do wrong?

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DaveR March 6, 2013 at 8:45 am

He does not deserve a position at all by the sounds of things. Take my advice dear and move on. You took the job application down yourself. The link is still on here from what I can see. Please do yourself a favor and get over this. It seems as if it is eating away at you. Take the words of your other post and digest them. Go out and have a life. Be happy for yourself and no one else. The grass is never greener on the other side, after all ask the man who started all this, he’ll agree. Don’t waste your time feeling sorry for this man, he is bad news and not the best of catches either, in fact he is no catch at all. I am sure your husband is better than this man. A marriage has to be worked at, it’s not a game. You need to cut all ties and associates with anything to do with this period in your life. You cannot expect others involved to keep those ties bound with you, it is not natural. Move on now dear…move on.

Oh just in case dear you are wondering who I am, I am an agony aunt/uncle for a local newspaper in South Carolina and have been following these posts closely since this story broke on here. I have been monitoring the Youtube videos also very carefully. You need to step back now from all this, I can tell it is destroying you. Let anyone to do with this go and they will let go also. It all seems to be getting out of control now from what I can see and have been observing. No one knows who you are, disappear before they do. Good luck with your marriage and the rest of your life.

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BigEarsWasArat March 6, 2013 at 12:02 pm

Oh Liz again..Hahahaha Your Topix links are down but I love saving stuff..I hoard data..lol Hey Chief Sealy..give this man his job back.He was kind to us so called “victims”. Harrassed? Buwahaha what a joke..

BigEarsWasArat March 6, 2013 at 12:26 pm

Move on from what? lol. See the worried look in my eye.

CountryKing March 3, 2013 at 2:33 am

Is the world listening to this crap? I think they are too interested in other issues than this trivial pursuit of a Detective that jilted a lover.He was not doing anything illegal but has been made out to look like he has.I hope everyone turns and supports him.Too many gold diggers here on the internet.

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mikey March 3, 2013 at 5:27 pm

couldn’t agree more, but I think there were several jilted lovers by the comments being made. did you not take a look at the other videos on youtube and the descriptions with them? Looks like there were a fair amount of cyber women he was dealing with sad idiot. one of them for five years, what the hell would that be all about. i would of thought though as a cop he wouldn’t have any gold. just a bunch of whores probably. desperate to get out of their sad lives or seeking asylum

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CountryKing March 3, 2013 at 2:33 am

Is the world listening to this crap? I think they are too interested in other issues than this trivial pursuit of a Detective that jilted a lover.He was not doing anything illegal but has been made out to look like he has.I hope everyone turns and supports him.Too many gold diggers here on the internet.

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mikey March 3, 2013 at 5:27 pm

couldn’t agree more, but I think there were several jilted lovers by the comments being made. did you not take a look at the other videos on youtube and the descriptions with them? Looks like there were a fair amount of cyber women he was dealing with sad idiot. one of them for five years, what the hell would that be all about. i would of thought though as a cop he wouldn’t have any gold. just a bunch of whores probably. desperate to get out of their sad lives or seeking asylum

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DaveR March 3, 2013 at 3:22 pm

Hey what happened to the link? Anyone else notice the two women on here fighting over the so called detective. Oh my I clicked on bales user page, Christ. whatever did they see in him. I reckon it’s all a big hoax or early april fool or something. Surely no one is taking this all seriously, it’s a big hoax and a con. Bloody hell you’ll do anything for a news article.

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DaveR March 3, 2013 at 3:22 pm

Hey what happened to the link? Anyone else notice the two women on here fighting over the so called detective. Oh my I clicked on bales user page, Christ. whatever did they see in him. I reckon it’s all a big hoax or early april fool or something. Surely no one is taking this all seriously, it’s a big hoax and a con. Bloody hell you’ll do anything for a news article.

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BigEarsWasArat March 4, 2013 at 8:22 pm

Hey everyone.I’m Sharon.Anyone with burning questions? The 5 years? Yes they were the best! Loved every minute of it.married? Yes I am, so what? So what has everyone got their knickers in a knot for? Fire away.I love life and I make the most of it.rotfl.Oh and the videos? yeah, gotta give the guy his due…he did well & was brave enough.I wouldn’t change a thing!

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DaveR March 6, 2013 at 8:23 am

Are you OK, you seem to be the only one on here saying anything, no one else is taking any notice and no one knows you dear, this is cyber land. Calm down. Did the guy really lose his job? Seems a shame after all the rubbish you keep going on about. Did he actually do anything wrong? And how can a person enjoy 5 years of a cyber relationship. Go out there and meet some real people. No one is taking any notice of you, you are quite safe. Do not worry what strangers think of you. If they do not know you how can they pass judgement. Now get on with your life and move on from whatever this daft story is all about. Don’t let it eat away at you OK? Try to fix your problems in your marriage. Live your life and free yourself from whatever is eating you. Be happy.

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BigEarsWasArat March 6, 2013 at 11:59 am

Oh Liz again..She just tries her best to disguise herself but cannot.Yes the one that begun this all..Follow the link to the USC..She posted that and then pretended to be a person living in Forest Acres.So many log in names and disguises I don’t think she knows her ass from her face.lol.

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BigEarsWasArat March 4, 2013 at 8:22 pm

Hey everyone.I’m Sharon.Anyone with burning questions? The 5 years? Yes they were the best! Loved every minute of it.married? Yes I am, so what? So what has everyone got their knickers in a knot for? Fire away.I love life and I make the most of it.rotfl.Oh and the videos? yeah, gotta give the guy his due…he did well & was brave enough.I wouldn’t change a thing!

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DaveR March 6, 2013 at 8:23 am

Are you OK, you seem to be the only one on here saying anything, no one else is taking any notice and no one knows you dear, this is cyber land. Calm down. Did the guy really lose his job? Seems a shame after all the rubbish you keep going on about. Did he actually do anything wrong? And how can a person enjoy 5 years of a cyber relationship. Go out there and meet some real people. No one is taking any notice of you, you are quite safe. Do not worry what strangers think of you. If they do not know you how can they pass judgement. Now get on with your life and move on from whatever this daft story is all about. Don’t let it eat away at you OK? Try to fix your problems in your marriage. Live your life and free yourself from whatever is eating you. Be happy.

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BigEarsWasArat March 6, 2013 at 11:59 am

Oh Liz again..She just tries her best to disguise herself but cannot.Yes the one that begun this all..Follow the link to the USC..She posted that and then pretended to be a person living in Forest Acres.So many log in names and disguises I don’t think she knows her ass from her face.lol.

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LifeSpa March 6, 2013 at 1:53 am

Forgiveness is the best revenge
People who have been badly hurt by an intimate person such as a spouse, partner, parent, sibling or close friend sometimes erroneously believe that by staying in the hurt, they are somehow indirectly punishing the perpetrator. They see it as their way of getting back at the perpetrator.

This logic does not hold water because very often the perpetrator does not really care about you in the first place or else he or she would not have cause the injury. In addition, continue to wallow in the pain only prolonged the injury long after it has happened. If it was the intention of the perpetrator to hurt you, clinging on to the pain only multiplies his or her success at hurting you.
In fact, the best revenge of the injured is to live a good and happy life after the injury. This is the surest way to foil the perpetrator’s “success”.

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DaveR March 6, 2013 at 8:30 am

Ah, very good. Now keep to your the words you have read and written here. Good sound advice dear and move on with your life. Why keep wallowing in self-pity, it never does anyone any good. And as I said in my other posting to you get on with life. Try and mend the holes in your marrige because whatever the problems are in that marriage you would only carry on with you into further relationships. You have to be strong and tough on yourself. Whatever this man did to you he will get his in return, that is how it works if you believe it. Now be kind to yourself now and stop putting up these daft posts because it seems apart from me there is no one here. Love life and enjoy it. Oh he’s not a poor sod or whatever you called him in another post, he does not deserve anything.

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BigEarsWasArat March 6, 2013 at 1:15 pm

oh I just love your advice Agony Aunt..You are bent on repairing lives..hahaha Well you know what..I come and go and I’m quite the whore..Begeezers at least I get some..lol

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LifeSpa March 6, 2013 at 1:53 am

Forgiveness is the best revenge
People who have been badly hurt by an intimate person such as a spouse, partner, parent, sibling or close friend sometimes erroneously believe that by staying in the hurt, they are somehow indirectly punishing the perpetrator. They see it as their way of getting back at the perpetrator.

This logic does not hold water because very often the perpetrator does not really care about you in the first place or else he or she would not have cause the injury. In addition, continue to wallow in the pain only prolonged the injury long after it has happened. If it was the intention of the perpetrator to hurt you, clinging on to the pain only multiplies his or her success at hurting you.
In fact, the best revenge of the injured is to live a good and happy life after the injury. This is the surest way to foil the perpetrator’s “success”.

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DaveR March 6, 2013 at 8:30 am

Ah, very good. Now keep to your the words you have read and written here. Good sound advice dear and move on with your life. Why keep wallowing in self-pity, it never does anyone any good. And as I said in my other posting to you get on with life. Try and mend the holes in your marrige because whatever the problems are in that marriage you would only carry on with you into further relationships. You have to be strong and tough on yourself. Whatever this man did to you he will get his in return, that is how it works if you believe it. Now be kind to yourself now and stop putting up these daft posts because it seems apart from me there is no one here. Love life and enjoy it. Oh he’s not a poor sod or whatever you called him in another post, he does not deserve anything.

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BigEarsWasArat March 6, 2013 at 1:15 pm

oh I just love your advice Agony Aunt..You are bent on repairing lives..hahaha Well you know what..I come and go and I’m quite the whore..Begeezers at least I get some..lol

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Liz Taylor England UK!!!!!! March 6, 2013 at 6:28 pm

TO YOU KNOW WHO IN SOUTH AFRICA, THE WOMAN WITH THE COMMON SURNAME. Still forever searching and hoping he’ll write to you, it’s not going to happen and I’m not going to either. Cut the ties it’s over. You are so daft, nobody reads these but me and you and I only just caught up after three days. You are so sad you just can’t stop looking, oh and check out your audio message on YouTube. Who are you afraid will come by it? Fat boy…lol, your husband? You are crazy, do you know how many videos are on YouTube? It would be like looking for a needle in a haystack and unless someone has a reason to be looking for you no one is going to find you, you sad woman. And the surname Botha is as common as Smith and yes mine is Taylor to you, but I don’t use that name, that is my old married name. You could not guess my real surname in a million years. Fatboy knows you gave me all the ammunition anyway, I sent him that audio message at the beginning of all this. As for the pictures on the other website, you did that, you have hundreds of pictures on him. You hacked my email account also and his and got my email address you admit doing his on the audio message you recorded. Everything you copy can be altered like all the so-called emails from the other women you made up and altered to use against him, but what’s is your problem anyway? Has something upset you? Changed your story now? Are you saying the letters were all lies and you made them up and you are sorry and he should have his job back, well get on and write to chief Sitting-Bull and tell him you fixed all the letters etc. As you say you have kept everything, yes all the pictures and videos to use against him as you admitted in the famous audio message. You are making yourself look a right tit if anyone else is reading..lol. You are so so predictable looking looking and hoping he’ll write, it’s over move on for pity’s sake. I know it was five years for you but for pity’s sake what are you like. Surely your husband is better than fatboy, anything is better than fatboy. What is the matter with you. Have you written to your cyber friend Audrey lately..lol? Maybe she told you to sling your hook too. This is cyber world who are you arguing with? You are talking and ranting at cyber people, not real people. Like you had a cyber relationship with Bales for five years and you have admitted on here enjoying it…lol, at least it was only two for me and I knew when to pull the plug. You are so big and brave hiding behind a computer in cyber land. Go and do some real work with your hands instead of sitting at a computer all day. I did not want to be friends to a woman I do not know or like or someone who is virtual reality land. You have to get over it for god’s sake or rather for your own sake, you are sick and in need of therapy, that’s why you and Bales got on so well too sick, self-pitying idiots together…lol. Fatboy is not coming back for you in his suit of shining armour on horseback, there is not a horse in the land could cope with the weight or enough steel on the planet to make his armour. Go away and write a book or two you’ve nothing else to do. Now do you see for yourself why I never trusted you? What ever is this all about? STOP LOOKING HE HAS GONE! HE DOESN’T WANT ANYONE, HE NEVER DID IT WAS A GAME. ACCEPT IT, YOU ARE GOING TO TRIP YOURSELF UP SOON IF YOU DON’T STOP POSTING, JUST LIKE HE TRIPPED HIMSELF UP. IF BY ANY CHANCE HE SHOULD READ THESE, HE’S HAVING A GOOD LAUGH, IS THAT WHAT YOU WANTED? MOVE ON BEFORE SOMEONE YOU DON’T WANT TO COMES ACROSS YOUR POSTS AND CATCHES YOU OUT. IT SEEMS TO ME YOU JUST WANT THE LAST WORD EVERY TIME, SO BE IT. I AM DONE NOW. FROM NOW ON YOU ARE TOTALLY ON YOUR OWN IN GA GA LAND. WHO ARE YOU ANYWAY?!!!!!!

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BigEarsWasArat March 6, 2013 at 8:16 pm

I don’t hack so stop trying to cover up.Your credibility is waning.Oh and I have had a reply from the Police in your area because you just will not stop harassing me.I will be going to my ISP tomorrow for them to contact your ISP.You need the details of the officer that contacted me? This will be copied and sent to them.

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Shazzer...lol March 7, 2013 at 4:53 am

Drop Dead Girl!

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BigEarsWasArat March 7, 2013 at 4:58 am

Go away Liz Taylor.I am going to kill you.So get lost!I’ll pay someone to murder you in your bed.

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Sharon March 7, 2013 at 8:09 am

Desperate measures eh? Logging in with my name.

BigEarsWasArat March 6, 2013 at 8:23 pm

Unfortunately computers don’t lie..you leave footprints wherever you go and even when deleted it’s still there but you just don’t know that.Websites store cookies on your pc as well as their servers and storage so there are footprints I’m sorry to tell you.

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BigEarsWasArat March 6, 2013 at 9:17 pm

To the UK woman with millions of names.A video recording will be sent to your Police station from me and my husband and a translator.The video will not be put on Youtube because you take videos and add messages to them.He knows about this so I don’t know what you want from me any more.

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Liz Taylor England UK!!!!!! March 6, 2013 at 6:28 pm

TO YOU KNOW WHO IN SOUTH AFRICA, THE WOMAN WITH THE COMMON SURNAME. Still forever searching and hoping he’ll write to you, it’s not going to happen and I’m not going to either. Cut the ties it’s over. You are so daft, nobody reads these but me and you and I only just caught up after three days. You are so sad you just can’t stop looking, oh and check out your audio message on YouTube. Who are you afraid will come by it? Fat boy…lol, your husband? You are crazy, do you know how many videos are on YouTube? It would be like looking for a needle in a haystack and unless someone has a reason to be looking for you no one is going to find you, you sad woman. And the surname Botha is as common as Smith and yes mine is Taylor to you, but I don’t use that name, that is my old married name. You could not guess my real surname in a million years. Fatboy knows you gave me all the ammunition anyway, I sent him that audio message at the beginning of all this. As for the pictures on the other website, you did that, you have hundreds of pictures on him. You hacked my email account also and his and got my email address you admit doing his on the audio message you recorded. Everything you copy can be altered like all the so-called emails from the other women you made up and altered to use against him, but what’s is your problem anyway? Has something upset you? Changed your story now? Are you saying the letters were all lies and you made them up and you are sorry and he should have his job back, well get on and write to chief Sitting-Bull and tell him you fixed all the letters etc. As you say you have kept everything, yes all the pictures and videos to use against him as you admitted in the famous audio message. You are making yourself look a right tit if anyone else is reading..lol. You are so so predictable looking looking and hoping he’ll write, it’s over move on for pity’s sake. I know it was five years for you but for pity’s sake what are you like. Surely your husband is better than fatboy, anything is better than fatboy. What is the matter with you. Have you written to your cyber friend Audrey lately..lol? Maybe she told you to sling your hook too. This is cyber world who are you arguing with? You are talking and ranting at cyber people, not real people. Like you had a cyber relationship with Bales for five years and you have admitted on here enjoying it…lol, at least it was only two for me and I knew when to pull the plug. You are so big and brave hiding behind a computer in cyber land. Go and do some real work with your hands instead of sitting at a computer all day. I did not want to be friends to a woman I do not know or like or someone who is virtual reality land. You have to get over it for god’s sake or rather for your own sake, you are sick and in need of therapy, that’s why you and Bales got on so well too sick, self-pitying idiots together…lol. Fatboy is not coming back for you in his suit of shining armour on horseback, there is not a horse in the land could cope with the weight or enough steel on the planet to make his armour. Go away and write a book or two you’ve nothing else to do. Now do you see for yourself why I never trusted you? What ever is this all about? STOP LOOKING HE HAS GONE! HE DOESN’T WANT ANYONE, HE NEVER DID IT WAS A GAME. ACCEPT IT, YOU ARE GOING TO TRIP YOURSELF UP SOON IF YOU DON’T STOP POSTING, JUST LIKE HE TRIPPED HIMSELF UP. IF BY ANY CHANCE HE SHOULD READ THESE, HE’S HAVING A GOOD LAUGH, IS THAT WHAT YOU WANTED? MOVE ON BEFORE SOMEONE YOU DON’T WANT TO COMES ACROSS YOUR POSTS AND CATCHES YOU OUT. IT SEEMS TO ME YOU JUST WANT THE LAST WORD EVERY TIME, SO BE IT. I AM DONE NOW. FROM NOW ON YOU ARE TOTALLY ON YOUR OWN IN GA GA LAND. WHO ARE YOU ANYWAY?!!!!!!

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BigEarsWasArat March 6, 2013 at 8:16 pm

I don’t hack so stop trying to cover up.Your credibility is waning.Oh and I have had a reply from the Police in your area because you just will not stop harassing me.I will be going to my ISP tomorrow for them to contact your ISP.You need the details of the officer that contacted me? This will be copied and sent to them.

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Shazzer...lol March 7, 2013 at 4:53 am

Drop Dead Girl!

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BigEarsWasArat March 7, 2013 at 4:58 am

Go away Liz Taylor.I am going to kill you.So get lost!I’ll pay someone to murder you in your bed.

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Sharon March 7, 2013 at 8:09 am

Desperate measures eh? Logging in with my name.

BigEarsWasArat March 6, 2013 at 8:23 pm

Unfortunately computers don’t lie..you leave footprints wherever you go and even when deleted it’s still there but you just don’t know that.Websites store cookies on your pc as well as their servers and storage so there are footprints I’m sorry to tell you.

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BigEarsWasArat March 6, 2013 at 9:17 pm

To the UK woman with millions of names.A video recording will be sent to your Police station from me and my husband and a translator.The video will not be put on Youtube because you take videos and add messages to them.He knows about this so I don’t know what you want from me any more.

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KingKong..Lol March 7, 2013 at 8:48 am

My life must truly be so sad, but I’ve never had so much fun in a long time at the expense of others. So funny I am crying with laughter. I’ll be sorry when it’s all over. There is nothing like the human being to make such a fool of themselves. Brilliant!!!! Wonderful!! Worthy of every lo-gin. ho, ho ho. It is so easy to wind some one up, but harder to walk away. First class entertainment. Superb!! Which one is the braver of the two?

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KingKong..Lol March 7, 2013 at 8:55 am

Yes I meant lo-gin. It’s like a slow-gin but you lie on the floor to drink it, lol. Come on, let’s have some more of this saga going on here, I can’t get enough!!!! I am so sad and live such a sheltered life…lol

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KingKong..Lol March 7, 2013 at 8:48 am

My life must truly be so sad, but I’ve never had so much fun in a long time at the expense of others. So funny I am crying with laughter. I’ll be sorry when it’s all over. There is nothing like the human being to make such a fool of themselves. Brilliant!!!! Wonderful!! Worthy of every lo-gin. ho, ho ho. It is so easy to wind some one up, but harder to walk away. First class entertainment. Superb!! Which one is the braver of the two?

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KingKong..Lol March 7, 2013 at 8:55 am

Yes I meant lo-gin. It’s like a slow-gin but you lie on the floor to drink it, lol. Come on, let’s have some more of this saga going on here, I can’t get enough!!!! I am so sad and live such a sheltered life…lol

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